"What you allow is what will continue." -Unknown

Life is made up of "No" all the time, I am 21 years old  and I realize at this thoughtful age what I can and cannot have. (... which is A LOT of things) However I have started looking closer into what I want from life and realized that if I don't start making things happen for myself then I am never going to follow my dreams. \

In life the main focus for most people to is to

 1. Find true Love

 2. Be super rich

 3. Live long magical lives that include many amazing memories from your past. 

Ideally these are the 3 things that people see in movies and hope to one day have. I have been sitting on my laurel for what feels like my entire life, waiting for at least 1 of the three things to start making its way towards me. Today however, I realized that I really just need to start making all situations that are probably a No, a Yes. If I want something bad enough I will make myself work hard to get it. I have also decided to stop being such a hypocrite and try to always say Yes to people in most situations. 

I am still trying to really figure out what I want from life but for now I know that I want my life to be about helping people. 

This blog will be about me trying to reach my dreams and become the woman I always dreamed of being. Follow me and see what kind of motivations I can give you to help you want to make your dreams come true as well!